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Ok Does This Seem Fair In A Divorce Settlement ? |
hi there i am going through a divorce and my ex husband and mind you the only reason why he is my ex husband is because he decided to take out his anger on my one month old daughter. well this is the divorce settlement and if i object which i do we will have to go to mediation he is going to be going to jail for at least two years do you think i will get anything out of this divorce i am not asking for alot i am just asking for insurance to be covered on me and my kids. for all medical bills to be payed by him for the kids right now due to social services i cant work long story dont want to get into it but i can work soon but my daughter has 1,000.00 a week in medical bills due to her physical
| Answer: Short answer: No. This looks like you are trying to settle your divorce without an attorney. Certainly it is understandable to want to do that and save money. But it does not really save money. There are complex issues here that need attention. And he has abusive tendencies, which-- if he can't restrain himself against a harmless child-- will definitely come out in his efforts to control the outcome of the settlement and to keep you as enmeshed with him as he can get. You need to stop negotiating with him and go get a lawyer. If you can not afford one, most legal service program agencies have assistance for women who are leaving relationships where there was |